Second-Hand Faith
"You can't borrow someone else's relationship or knowledge of God"- Rob Wegner 4/25/10
Let's face it, faith can be a tough thing for many people. Where is God? Why do bad things happen? Did we simply evolve, ended up here, and somehow are a fluke of science?
I've got opinions about a lot of things, if you ask me about the health care debate, I'll have an opinion. Based on what? Some opinions of CNN/Fox News, a little talk radio, and a few sound bites from others or stories. The truth is, I haven't read the 1000 pages of actual information that would give me the details.
In our lives, far too often we can approach God the same way. We have a "filter" we view God through based on the opinions of others, how we grew up, or what we think He should be or should be doing. Too often, what we think about anything is based on second- hand information or in this case, we have second-hand faith.
We are a culture of short cuts. Net it out for me, tell me what I need to know, and I'll move on... We want God to swoop in and fix our problems but don't really have a personal pursuit of God. Are we pursuing God and our Faith or are we relying on the information or faith of others?
Matthew 7:7 "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
In the Bible, Jesus says, "seek and you will find, knock and the door will be opened to you..." How do we move from second-hand knowledge of God to first-hand knowledge? Do you have such a strong notion of what God should be doing that we can't see what God is actually doing in our lives? Could our eyes be restrained?
If I want to lose weight and look like a chiseled, strong machine, it won't happen by simply standing and hearing stories from a personal trainer... I actually have to get on the treadmill, change my eating plan, and push some weight. This will give me a first-hand experience of what it takes to get into shape.
Faith is similar, what are the activities that can help us get a first-hand experience of God?
- Read the Bible regularly, check out youversion.com and start with Proverbs and John... read a chapter or two a day as part of your routine...
- Start praying. Keep it simple but a great start is to pray, "God, I'm pursuing you and give my life to you. Please send people in my life and help guide me in understanding You and my purpose here in life.. Give me the eyes to see what You see and what my next step is..."
- Connect with others. Be a friend and have a friend. Who we surround ourselves with has a big impact on who we will become. Are the people around you helping you in your steps and pursuit of God or are they pointing you a different direction? Learning from others will help us in steps we can take in our personal journey.
- Practice generosity. Start taking steps of giving your time and money. Start looking for ways you can volunteer in areas you have a passion or have experience... Give to help others, if not here at Granger, find a place that is helping you takes steps in your faith and give there. Make a difference in the lives of others and in your community.
- Connect to a church. We all need reminders and continue to learn- find a local church or hang with a church online to help understand Who God is and how He works. Going to church to check a box isn't the issue, it's about building your knowledge of Jesus and what His purpose is for your life.
The second-hand, normal response might be, "uh, that sounds like a lot of work... I think I'll pass..."
Where are you taking steps? Toward Christ and pursuing your Faith or is life keeping you busy enough not to really think or focus on it? What helps you experience God first-hand?
Check out a great message related to this post at gccwired.com by Rob Wegner, "4 Words" on 4/24 and 4/25.
Back Off God I Need Your Help
Yeah, I admit it... Sometimes consciously (and often unconsciously) I actually tell the God of the universe to back off (which may be the dumbest thing I ever do in life). Does He respond with lightning strikes or infect me with some weird growth out of the side of my head? No, He typically gives me what I want... he leaves me to my own, second best, often stressed out free will.
As we heard in this Distant series, "God has a terrible insistence on our free will".
Do you wonder where God is? Are you shutting Him out or letting Him in?
We seem to live life with expectations that if there's a God, He is supposed to protect me from anything bad in this world and if He screws up, I can (and should be) ticked off at Him. Furthermore, the more He screws up the less I trust Him and actually expect Him to do anything....even to the point of questioning the actual existence of God. So what's up?
- Most of us drift into doing what we want to do when we want to do it. If God works in that plan... great... as long as it's my plan. We choose entertainment over purpose. We choose how we feel right now over what's the next right thing to do.
- The Bible says God has a perfect will for our lives. He knows us better than we know ourselves. (Romans 12:1-2 See below)
- God wants to take us out of our comfort zone. Boring, routine, stagnant, and lame are not in God's plan for you. Want to find God? What is the next right thing that has been on your mind that takes you out of your current routine?
- We all are dysfunctional. Whether in our relationships, our responses, our thoughts... we all have issues... We tend to want to shut God out because we don't want to deal with it... "God, we're good but I don't want to deal with that..."
- We think it's only about here...our short time on Earth. We actually believe "Life is short, play hard." We're not sure if it's worth handing the reins of our life over to God for fear we may miss out on something in this life. We want God around but we've got things we want to accomplish in our lives. God's plan is greater than ours. Do you ever feel that rub?
- We get desensitized to God. Like a wrist watch, we forget he's there and drift back into our busy lives.
Do you think there is a God? Do you think He is at work in this world...or does He seem to be distant?
Romans 12:1-2 (The Message)
1 So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him.2 Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.
Feel Distant from God?
So God... where are you? Do you really care what's going on in my life? Don't you see the terrible things going on in our world? In my world?
We tend to ask these questions most when we've been affected by sin (or bad people or circumstances) in the world.
As I live a life of free will, surrounded by a globe of people with free will, there are times I wish God would just swoop in and take care of the mess. If I've lost my job... "God, get me a job!" If a loved one is hurt, "God, heal them!" If someone is dysfunction, "God fix them!"
If we don't have clarity on who God is, it's really hard to determine how God may or may not respond in our lives. If God is who we want him to be with no basis of who he may be, we'll probably be disappointed.
So what do we do then? Here are just a few things the Bible tells us about God and the life we live:
- God says He will be with us. Matthew 28:20 Then instruct them in the practice of all I have commanded you. I’ll be with you as you do this, day after day after day, right up to the end of the age.”
- When times our good, we tend to live on our own strength without God... when they go bad, we wonder where God is... Job 35:12 People are arrogantly indifferent to God— until, of course, they’re in trouble, and then God is indifferent to them.
- We're going to have troubles in this world, even those who believe in Christ. 2 Timothy 3:12 Anyone who wants to live all out for Christ is in for a lot of trouble; there’s no getting around it.
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The Bible gives us guidance on our decisions in life. Psalm 119:105 By your words I can see where I’m going; they throw a beam of light on my dark path.
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Even people in the Bible felt distant from God at times. Psalm 55:1 Open your ears, God, to my prayer; don’t pretend you don’t hear me knocking. (This was David, the same guy who killed the giant Goliath if you've heard that story)
Questions about God and doubt are normal. You may have questions whether the Bible is really a worthy guide to life inspired by a real God. (Another good question worth exploring)
We're going to continue the path this week as we explore more of our questions about God. You don't even have to walk into a church building! We're going to be running (2) online test services at 6:30 and 8:30 PM EST tomorrow (October 18th) at idochurchonline.com. Jump on and check it out!
